Interesting lineage, welcome to the site. Filling out your profile will prevent others from jumping to the same conclusion I did. In regards to your comment on counselling, I have to disagree. I have experienced both traditional counselling, which consisted of a verbal harangue covering every topic from my faults to the promiscuity of my mother, usually followed by a physical assault. I am also familiar with pro-active counselling of wayward soldiers in need of advice and, well, counselling.
Given we don't perform an ordinary job, and it's going to become even more out of the ordinary in the following months, the methods we use are going to have to do for now.