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Dear Milnet.ca,
I have been a long time reader of these forums, but due to the search function I have had my questions answered quite thoroughly each time they arose, thank you. I come to these forums today seeking some advice and honest opinions regarding my current situation. I do not wish to waste anyone's time so this post will be as brief as possible, and I want thank all of you in advance for reading this. I also want to apologize if I misplaced where this should have been posted.
I was recently sworn into my current Unit, and out of respect for the Unit and its Directing Staff (which has been tremendous in my application process, thank you) they will remain unnamed, but I was not given the rank of Ofcd, rather I was allocated as a 2Lt. I am 24, currently finishing a psychology degree, I have no prior military experience, a spoonful of knowledge regarding the military, and I am not BMQ qualified. My concern here is not why I was given the rank 2Lt, life is as wonderful as it is painful so it is not my place to question the reasoning behind that decision whatsoever, this is just a premise to my situation.
My superiors explained that the opportunity presented to me here is unique. Since my enrollment process was hiccuped many times (like everyone else) to which my Unit Directing Staff felt a need to intervene, and literally force my enrollment into completion. The opportunity to enter a summer BMQ was missed, and am now currently scheduled for a Fall BMQ. Concurrently the Unit also is receiving a large influx of new untrained members who are also scheduled for a Fall BMQ. The CO told me that the men and women who I will have the absolute honor and privilege of leading in the future will be with me in the BMQ directly, and many eyes will be watching how I conduct myself during this test. The entire Unit is aware of my situation, so it is clear to me that the way I conduct myself by dress, speech, and overall conduct in these times before my trial by fire will be watched with a close eye by everyone, especially the Senior NCO's. To be fair this is the military, my conduct, dress, etc. will always be watched from now on.
What I am asking of Milnet.ca is for any personal advice on this situation. Everything is an asset here, and I assure all of you that all replies will be considered and heavily weighed upon. Perhaps if the situation is to be repeated in the future, they will be passed along. I give credit where credit is due, I assure all of you that I will not claim any of your ideas as my own for future reference. I swore allegiance to the Queen, Canada, its citizens and their interests, my intentions here are to learn and to do my best to fit into a magnificent system, and to assist others to succeed and do the same.
The way I tend to view things is like this:
The military will do absolutely fine with or without me, I am not a special character, I am just a man. That being said, I believe if someone else can accomplish a task then to some degree, whether for better or worse, I should be able to accomplish it as well. I accommodate to the system of the military, not the other way around. If in my career I show military intelligence, put my best foot forward, then perhaps after a long and dedicated career I my have the opportunity to put my opinion on the table. The bottom line here is that I know very little, and as a post I read a while ago put it "I don't even know how to lace my boots right."
However the point is I can learn. Knowledge and a willingness to learn is one of the best tools anyone can have, among other things, especially when given for free. When someone speaks to me with the intention to teach, I shut up, pay full attention, and always keep what they say in mind.
I will be put through my paces through training, that is just the way it is, and I am fairly certain even more so because of my situation. I am a firm believer that all things desired and given must be earned. I was very fortunate to have this opportunity and I do not wish to embarrass the people who decided it was my opportunity to have.
With that being said I am a people first type of leader and a team player, and I must give thanks to the men and women of Soldiers of Fitness Boot camp who helped me cultivate that style of thinking. I must recommend that program to anyone considering any sort of career that involves leadership.
This post went much longer than anticipated to which I apologize, and I appreciate your time reading this, and look forward to any and all responses.
Thank you.
I have been a long time reader of these forums, but due to the search function I have had my questions answered quite thoroughly each time they arose, thank you. I come to these forums today seeking some advice and honest opinions regarding my current situation. I do not wish to waste anyone's time so this post will be as brief as possible, and I want thank all of you in advance for reading this. I also want to apologize if I misplaced where this should have been posted.
I was recently sworn into my current Unit, and out of respect for the Unit and its Directing Staff (which has been tremendous in my application process, thank you) they will remain unnamed, but I was not given the rank of Ofcd, rather I was allocated as a 2Lt. I am 24, currently finishing a psychology degree, I have no prior military experience, a spoonful of knowledge regarding the military, and I am not BMQ qualified. My concern here is not why I was given the rank 2Lt, life is as wonderful as it is painful so it is not my place to question the reasoning behind that decision whatsoever, this is just a premise to my situation.
My superiors explained that the opportunity presented to me here is unique. Since my enrollment process was hiccuped many times (like everyone else) to which my Unit Directing Staff felt a need to intervene, and literally force my enrollment into completion. The opportunity to enter a summer BMQ was missed, and am now currently scheduled for a Fall BMQ. Concurrently the Unit also is receiving a large influx of new untrained members who are also scheduled for a Fall BMQ. The CO told me that the men and women who I will have the absolute honor and privilege of leading in the future will be with me in the BMQ directly, and many eyes will be watching how I conduct myself during this test. The entire Unit is aware of my situation, so it is clear to me that the way I conduct myself by dress, speech, and overall conduct in these times before my trial by fire will be watched with a close eye by everyone, especially the Senior NCO's. To be fair this is the military, my conduct, dress, etc. will always be watched from now on.
What I am asking of Milnet.ca is for any personal advice on this situation. Everything is an asset here, and I assure all of you that all replies will be considered and heavily weighed upon. Perhaps if the situation is to be repeated in the future, they will be passed along. I give credit where credit is due, I assure all of you that I will not claim any of your ideas as my own for future reference. I swore allegiance to the Queen, Canada, its citizens and their interests, my intentions here are to learn and to do my best to fit into a magnificent system, and to assist others to succeed and do the same.
The way I tend to view things is like this:
The military will do absolutely fine with or without me, I am not a special character, I am just a man. That being said, I believe if someone else can accomplish a task then to some degree, whether for better or worse, I should be able to accomplish it as well. I accommodate to the system of the military, not the other way around. If in my career I show military intelligence, put my best foot forward, then perhaps after a long and dedicated career I my have the opportunity to put my opinion on the table. The bottom line here is that I know very little, and as a post I read a while ago put it "I don't even know how to lace my boots right."
However the point is I can learn. Knowledge and a willingness to learn is one of the best tools anyone can have, among other things, especially when given for free. When someone speaks to me with the intention to teach, I shut up, pay full attention, and always keep what they say in mind.
I will be put through my paces through training, that is just the way it is, and I am fairly certain even more so because of my situation. I am a firm believer that all things desired and given must be earned. I was very fortunate to have this opportunity and I do not wish to embarrass the people who decided it was my opportunity to have.
With that being said I am a people first type of leader and a team player, and I must give thanks to the men and women of Soldiers of Fitness Boot camp who helped me cultivate that style of thinking. I must recommend that program to anyone considering any sort of career that involves leadership.
This post went much longer than anticipated to which I apologize, and I appreciate your time reading this, and look forward to any and all responses.
Thank you.