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If you decide to not pursue, there isn't any shame or dishonor. Nobody is going to look at you differently, or line up to give you a white feather. Full candor here, no one who's in will care that much whether you joined or not. Your file manager may have a short-lived professional disappointment that the applicant file they have on their desk will go on one stack instead of the other, but they'll quickly move on.
Realistically, the harshest critic anyone has is themselves. Can YOU live with not taking that shot? Will you end up not regretting it?
I will say this. The hardest step into the unknown is generally the first one. Self-doubt is absolutely normal, especially when someone is older and is already established, or has other excellent options available to them. The easy choice is to maintain the status quo, and if you choose to do so, there isn't any shame in it. But stripping all the external factors and what-ifs away, it comes down to this: Do you want to do it? Like I said earlier, in all honestly, most of us don't care if you don't. But will you?
As previously mentioned, if you want the best of both worlds, you can also look at the Reserve option. You may love it, and decide you want to go full-hog into it, or you could decide it's not your bag, and go another route.
Either way, ball's in your court, and best of luck to you.
Realistically, the harshest critic anyone has is themselves. Can YOU live with not taking that shot? Will you end up not regretting it?
I will say this. The hardest step into the unknown is generally the first one. Self-doubt is absolutely normal, especially when someone is older and is already established, or has other excellent options available to them. The easy choice is to maintain the status quo, and if you choose to do so, there isn't any shame in it. But stripping all the external factors and what-ifs away, it comes down to this: Do you want to do it? Like I said earlier, in all honestly, most of us don't care if you don't. But will you?
As previously mentioned, if you want the best of both worlds, you can also look at the Reserve option. You may love it, and decide you want to go full-hog into it, or you could decide it's not your bag, and go another route.
Either way, ball's in your court, and best of luck to you.