If you think that we are being harsh here, you are going to be in for a real shock if/when you get into the CF. There are plenty of people here who can attest to that.
Contrary to what you may think, we are attempting to help you out, whether you see that or not.
Coddling or spoonfeeding people does nothing for them in the long run.
You have been told what to do in order to succeed. What you do, here or anywhere, is up to you. But do not expect success, anywhere, unless you are prepared to work for it. The information that you seek is here, already. If finding that is too much effort, you are not going to go very far. Pilot training is a LOT of work. I do not know of anybody who has gone through it that has not been surprised by how much work is involved. Nobody, during any part of any course is going to do a thing for you if you are not willing to do anything for yourself.
Why should anybody spend their valuable time repeating what they've already done if you are unwilling to even look? And it's not just you. There is an endless string of people doing that, and our patience for endless repetition is limited.
It's your choice. Toss your teddy in the corner and slink off, or buck up and set to work.
You're young, so we cut you some slack. Sort yourself out, show us that you are serious, and you'll earn our respect quite quickly. Plenty of others have managed to do just that.
You may well achieve whatever goal you set for yourself. In order to do so, though, you have to want that goal enough, and you have to earn it. There are no free rides in the real world.
And, finally, if I did not care, then I'd not be spending time, when I have a ton of other things to do, typing this out.