I own a couple of camo items, nothing cadpat though. I'm not against people wearing it, nor do I think it's disrespectful, unless it's overdone. A friend of mine purchased a cadpat hat, shirt and pants. We called him Captain Cadpat. I also called him a dumbass. That I found somewhat disrespectful. At least "fashion camo" looks nothing like what I've seen on actual miltary personale, and I think that's okay. But in the case of my friend, Captain Cadpat, not only did he look like an idiot, it bothered me that he was dressed head to toe in the stuff.
My boyfriend, who is in the Army Reserves, owns a pair of camo shorts he just kinda bums around his house in. Aside from that, he really doesn't like to have any cadpat on him outside of work. We went out for a bonfire the other week, and the only bag he had was his rucksack, which he refused to carry because; "Wearing that out of work, I look dumb. You wearing that looks cute and fashionable!"