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Pro/Anti Child Bearing Policies (split from "Canada don’t matter" thread)

The problem is that any population needs youth to fill in the blank file when the elderly start to retire and die off.

If we aren't generating that youth ourselves, we have to import them (immigration), and that is a cumbersome practice that may or may not yield results.

The reason our birth rate is plummeting, even in the face of childbearing policies that encourage parents to take time off, is cost of living being exorbitant.

When you have younger generations, who saw their parents raise kids in relative affluence, struggle to afford housing and groceries for themselves and their partner/pets; the thought of adding another mouth to feed is the last thing on their minds.

Add to the fact that societal and familial stigma on being childless has all but disappeared, those who wouldn't want to have kids, aren't.

Isn't there a correlation between affluence and birth rates ?

Meaning the more affluent a group is the less they reproduce ?

Definitely stand to be corrected here.
 
Generally the more educated and affluent the lower the birth rate.

Some research is indicating that may be changing.


 
Just talking with someone that has a friend who is 50 and just had a baby and also a 4 year old. Frankly I think it's selfish to have kids that late. You won't have the energy or the longevity to raise them.
 
Just talking with someone that has a friend who is 50 and just had a baby and also a 4 year old. Frankly I think it's selfish to have kids that late. You won't have the energy or the longevity to raise them.
Let's not talk about Al Pacino then...

 
Just talking with someone that has a friend who is 50 and just had a baby and also a 4 year old. Frankly I think it's selfish to have kids that late. You won't have the energy or the longevity to raise them.

How old is the mother?
 
Just talking with someone that has a friend who is 50 and just had a baby and also a 4 year old. Frankly I think it's selfish to have kids that late. You won't have the energy or the longevity to raise them.
The positive aspect is that the kids will get their inheritance while they are still young enough to make good use of it.

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The positive aspect is that the kids will get their inheritance while they are still young enough to make good use of it.

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Sarcastic Season 9 GIF by The Office
 
Just talking with someone that has a friend who is 50 and just had a baby and also a 4 year old. Frankly I think it's selfish to have kids that late. You won't have the energy or the longevity to raise them.
I'm 63. I have a 7 year-old. I also have a 12 year-old, a 16 year-old, and an 18 year-old. I have the energy. Longetivity🤷‍♂️
 
More grist for the mill ...
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One MSM take on the survey ....
 
Just talking with someone that has a friend who is 50 and just had a baby and also a 4 year old. Frankly I think it's selfish to have kids that late. You won't have the energy or the longevity to raise them.
It’s poor family planning to have kids older, and it isn’t just you that suffers, it’s future generations.

For example my family is young for a Canadian born family. I had a kid before 30. My parents had a kid before 25, my grandparents had a kid before 25.

The result is the child has grandparents who are helping with child care and don’t need care themselves yet. The great grandparents are able to help out somewhat (varying capacities depending on which one it is, but are still able to provide assistance) well only needing limited assistance (notably the grandparents are doing most that assistance so the parents can handle the child with less stress, etc.).

If a family waits until 35 to have kids for two generations that means the grandparents are 70 when the first child is born. Right around the time most people start needing assistance in life. So the parents get sandwiched with a newborn and aging parents to deal with. The child also isn’t likely to know their grandparents too well as the average age of mortality being late 70s early 80s.

And thats only if delayed until 35. Your example of 50 is insane, the grandparents would have had to have had a child at like 16 to be still useful for watching and assisting and thats if they are even still alive. There is a good chance their parents won’t even make it to their college/university graduation, let alone provide any future assistance for the grandchildren. The child will have to care for them before they even have a real job.
 
Maybe if we didn’t expect people to be gainfully employed until they are 25+

Longer schooling, lack of good jobs that don’t require post secondary at 17 and costs of having children are all part of the problem.
 
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