In Saskatchewan Remembrance Day is a statutory holiday. Schools and offices are closed. Retail of course, is open. In the larger centres schools usually hold a ceremony the last school day before Remembrance Day. In the smaller centres, the high schools with community support generally organize a ceremony on November 11, even though the school is closed - the reason being quite simple - as in my home town of 500, there are too few Legion members left to organize a ceremony.
It's a far cry from when I was young. The WWII veterans were then all young vibrant men - the pillars that held up the community. They deserved our thanks for so many things, coaching and refereeing our hockey games, raising funds to run the rink, the ball diamonds and the swimming pool. But the one day that we did get to say thanks was on November 11, when they stood proud and straight at the front of the hall. Some of the proudest moments of my life were those November mornings, when I stood farther back in the hall in my cadet uniform, waiting for the end of the service, when I and two or three of my friends were given the honour of marching with those men through the middle of town as we drummed them to the cenotaph to lay the wreaths and bring the official ceremonies to a close.
Even today, I can't keep a dry eye at 11:00 - I remember those men and their contribution, and their feeling of loss for those who didn't come home. As a parent, I take it as a big responsiblity every year to spend time talking to my daughters about what the day means, and why it is important to them. My daughers were honoured a couple of years ago to be able to lay the wreath for their school at the city-wide ceremony in Saskatoon. Every year, it seems to grow larger. I wouldn't be surprised to see attendance top 10,000 this year.
Even so, and with the hugest amount of sympathy with the sentiments expressed by Tess - this isn't something you can mandate or force. The freedom people have to ignore Remembrance Day, is ironically, the most important gift our veterans and fallen have given to each of us. Moreoever, what I find so heartening is that, even with the growing amount of competition each year with another dozen TV channels and several more big box stores open for shopping, the attendance on November 11 keeps going up and up.... If given freely the respect afforded by the people means so much more.