Are there opportunities for constant learning/skill development? One of the issues I have with my current employment is that it's not going anywhere from where it is now. I'm as far e up as I can get, with very little opportunity for advancement or learning anything new/challenging.
Definitely. It just depends on what you are looking for. Opportunities are presented to you and others you may have to request and or work for. There is an education reimbursement for Reservists for post secondary studies. I believe it is up to $2000 to a maximum of $8000. With this, you have to keep in mind that not every course will be reimbursed.
When should I join? I'm in Nova Scotia, and I know different units have different training schedules, but is there a particular time of year that would be best?
That depends; talk it over with your hubby. At this point, you would be looking at a summer course unless they can get all of your process completed before the winter course starts which could be in February. It could also be in the fall. It depends on how your process moves along, when your area is holding courses, and how many spots are available.
but is there a particular time of year that would be best?
There are some threads on the Winter vs. Summer BMQ courses on the site; you might want to do a search on those. Really it depends on your employer and what you and your husband decide. Personally, I saved my full time courses for when I really needed them to save having to work with my employer to get time off. Your BMQ and possibly your SQ can be on the weekend; your trades training however is full time. Something to consider.
Another piece of advice is to try and visit the Units on Parade night and get a feel for what goes on. Ask to see their training calendar if they have one to see what sort of training they are doing and how frequently they "play soldier" on the weekend to see if it fits your build. Also, you can and ask about what sort of events that the Unit does outside of your typical Parade night and training weekend. My former Unit did little in the way of dinners, events etc. Part of the fun is the "extras" that comes with your Unit. Also, the level of training can be very different between Units from what I have seen.
...If that happens to be Fall/Winter, when does fitness tests/bmq take place?...I have completely altered my lifestyle since I started thinking about this, and I am running/doing weight training, etc. but I know I'm not ready for the requirements right now; realistically I think I'd be good in February.
I can speak from experience on a weekend BMQ course; there is little time for PT. You might go for some wake up runs (short distance, slow to medium pace). Of course, you will have push ups etc. Having said that, try to get in the best possible shape especially for what follows BMQ. BMQ, at least weekend BMQ, was more about getting your mind in shape.
Can I expect to be able to support myself? I'm employed, my husband's employed with a good full time job, so I'm guessing yes, but I'm nervous.
It's natural to be nervous, but you get over it fast.
Do I sound like someone who should actually be doing this at all?
I'd really appreciate any responses I can get, and thanks kindly in advance.
You do. Get into it and it will feel a lot more natural!
I'm 29, have a fairly good job who will make accommodations for training. I've been thinking about it off and on for months....I'm fairly certain the regular forces are not for me, at least not at this point.
You can always start out as a Reservist and do a component transfer to the Regular Force later on. Also, you can seek full time employment as a Reservist when your training is complete. If it helps, I was in a similar boat in terms of my personal life and trying to decide between the Regs and the Reserves. After joining the Reserves and spending some time in there, I knew I
really enjoyed the Reserves but that I didn't want to go into the Regs. It really put that issue to bed and I am 100% happy about my decision. BUT that is just me; you may decide that you want to do it full time...
Talk to your husband and try to visit the Units before Christmas stand down in December. You might have trouble visiting the Units around mid-December.
Good luck.